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writes: My hubby and I have been married for only three weeks. We lived together before we were married and had amazing sex all the time. Then, we were away from each other for 9 months.Since we've been reunited and married, the sex has been terrible! When we're in bed, he's all over the place. He doesn't try to listen to my body and I find myself bored, annoyed, or distracted.I'm not sure for how long this has been a problem. I just feel like he's bad in bed. I've tried to tell him what to do, but when we're in the moment, he loses it. Maybe he was always this way but we were before in the euphoria of a new relationship.I just don't know how things have gone downhill so fast. I can barely work up the nerve to have sex with him now because of so many unsuccessful attempts.Last night, we tried again and got into a huge fight. I probably let my frustration out a bit too much.Any advice??? Reply to this Question
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reader, pops +, writes (23 June 2005):
I agree with D-missy. Sex is a participatory Sport ! Get involved. If you don't like what your partner is doing, tell him to take a break, and take Charge. Women really run the fuck, whether they are agressive or passive, so quit kidding yourself that you can simply lie there and he will make your happy. If he is not hitting the right places, then TELL HIM ! Sex is best when you do it with a very responsive, and responsible TEACHER! TEACH!!
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reader, D_Missy +, writes (23 June 2005):
Try taking control. Get on top or something. Show him EXACTLY how you like it. Obviously its not working with him in control. I should be telling you that you should take turns, but it seems that he knows what he wants..haha...so take the time to show him what it is you want. Be patient and he'll get it eventually.
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