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writes:I'm seriously going crazy over this guy at work, who I really like. He is everything I look for in a guy, manly, smart, kind, sweet and loves football, of which I'm a huge fan. The thing is I leave next Friday and I can't help but think about how much I'll miss him. I'm moving on to a better job with better money, also it's 20 miles away from my home town. At first I thought he liked me too, little things really, the way he looked at me, the way he said my name, if I was carrying something heavy he would take it out of my hands, I know it might not sound like he really liked me but it was like it to me. I think it's too late to start anything, but I really need help to get over him, my best mate says I should just talk to him and try and find something I don't like about him, but every time I talk to him, I start laughing or smiling. Any idea's of how I could get over him?
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reader, pavel38  +, writes (30 August 2007):
20 miles isn't exactly a long way away so why not take the plunge and ask him out for a drink? In a way it's an ideal opportunity because you can say that you've been thinking about it for a while but didn't mention it because you didn't want things to be 'difficult' at work (something I sadly know all too well at the mo), but now you're leaving thought it did no harm to ask. What's the worst that can happen ? - even if he declines it's not like you'll see him everyday anymore and you will recognise you need to find someone else, and if you don't ask the question "what if ?" will always nag away at you. I posed a similar question to a colleague just before I left an old job and whilst it didn't materialise into more she did say that she had never thought for a minute that I was interested in her, even though to me it was obvious. So you never know...good luck :-)
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reader, Ileana +, writes (30 August 2007):
 Hey,Looks like you might not want to get over him and unless you want to you cant, sorry. Try speaking to him more and swap contact details so you can arrange nights out together or meet ups just as friends and see how things progress although you cant see him everyday doesnt mean you cant try to have a relationship with him.LoveIleana.xxxxx
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