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Newly marrried and everytime I have sex with my husband, I laugh uncontrollably. What can I do?

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Question - (1 February 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 February 2007)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi, I`m newly marrried and everytime I have sex with my husband, tend to laugh uncontrollably. we`re just not able to have sex because of ths. pls pls help!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2007):

I always laugh when I orgasim always have. I freaks some guys out, others dig it. I see nothing wrong with it. If they can't handle it it is their prob

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A female reader, JulietteElise United States +, writes (2 February 2007):

JulietteElise agony auntoh.. one more thing i forgot... .... if he has a funny "sex face"... and thats what is makeing you laugh, just keep your eyes closed! :0D

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A female reader, JulietteElise United States +, writes (2 February 2007):

JulietteElise agony auntsome people just naturaly laugh during sex or orgasims, i've had orgasims that have felt great, but seemed to tickle my whole body as well, so i would laugh and giggle uncontrolably for a while after! i've even had a b/f who found this to be a huge turn on belive it or not...

however... you don't say if its during the beggining when things are getting started, if its more towards the rise of climax, or during the orgasim itself. You also dont say if u've ever had sex with other people in past relationships where this was never an issue.

the reason i ask at which point of sex, is because that could very well indicate what can if changed, if anything. If its more in the middle or ending of sex when he is going in very deep, he may be hitting your uterus which for some females is uncomfertable, painful, or even a bit of a tickly sensation (thus, he shouldnt penetrate as deep). Also, at any point during sex, he might just be rubbing against your g-spot in just a way that it tickles you/sends shivers or waves throughout your pelvis regin or body that tickle you. Or, perhaps, his pubic hair/chest hair is tickleing your body.... all i can suggest really is to try diffrent positions to see which ones work or not, or even diffrent types of condoms with diffrent textures. Haveing sex while you are both submershed in water in a tub or pool might help, but you have to make sure you are wett enough or have lube since water can often make one feel rubbed raw... But please try to narrow down and pinpoint what/how the ticklish feeling that makes you laugh occurs. otherwise..... this might just be something that will always happen, and thus have to learn how to make it something that arouses him (after all, then he'll assosiate your laugh with sex!).... if you just laugh when you orgasim however, this is certinitly very natural and means u're feeling good... or perhaps you need to have an orgasim before you both begin sex. shrugs. or use a ball-gag and be tied down if you have too ;oP also... i suppose if you breath deeply and quickly while haveing sex, thus hyperventilateing, this could make you light in the head, and thus giddy.... so if thats the case, learning to control your breathing might be all thats needed.

good luck!

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (2 February 2007):

cd206 agony auntSex is a hugely emotional experience and when you think about it, sex is funny! However I can see this is killing the mood for you both. Having never had this problem I'm not 100% sure what you could try but maybe try to stay in the moment rather than drifting off into whatever is making you laugh or maybe think of something sad? Hope one of these works for you.

CD

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