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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I'm a Jamaican girl who has been seeing a Moroccan for over a year now. I am also divorced and already have two kids, which he says is a problem for him. He has told me because of the kids we can never have anything permanent.well i'm pregnant for him and he's confused. He told me two wks ago to have abortion and now he says keep it but he will not be able to be father figure to the child or introduce the child to family. I think hes just scared and confused.He's 32 yrs and never got a girl pregnant before.I know he has feelings for me because he told me last year but he's denying it now.advice plz?Below is a text convo we had recentlyme:-just to let u know...I'm free in the mornings now...semester is over...him:-U know !! I think it's better to jerk off then end up with a pregnancy that u didn't plan tome:-U hate mehim:-I don'tme:-So why are u talking to me that way?me:-Do u think I want to coz u pain?him:-Look I just got up and I don't want to have a convo about this.. All I can tell u is I can't do this I can't see u and make love to ume:-U already didDo just that the last time I saw. U:(him:-Watme:-Nevermind...me:-Never knew u could be like thishim:-I'm sorry , I know I cause u pain when u talk to mehim:-I will help if u need anything with the baby but for us we have to stop seeing each otherme:-Nothing about what u are saying makes any senseSo u are scariedOf me becoz I'm pregnant with ur childScared of it becoming something more..LolNow I can't stop laughingU r a joke...him:-Like what WTF .. U knew this to begin with I have told u many times that what we have is sexualme:-Scared to liveOh I've heard u say that and many other thingsand u know what we have is more than sexual...U can lie to urself if u want tohim:-Look u can call me names as much as u want it don't matter, what matter to me know is things are diffeent I use to see u coz I love making love to u butnow ur pregnant wich something I didn't want so I can not see u againme:-And I told u if u want me to have abortion I will!me:-U r the worst !him:-U missed up everything when u become pregnant so don't think it's gonna be the same . I can't make love to u while we have this situation even I want to**** that pussy of urs so hardhim:-Just sex honey trust meI like making love to u ur the bestNothing else thome:-so everything u told me was a lie..him:-Ok I'm hard for uhim:-Lol omg
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reader, Stranger13  +, writes (23 December 2010):
Dear Stranger,
First of all this guy doesn't love you! Get that straight. The Conversation you had Just proves that He is a responsible guy no doubt about it, that's why he agreed to help you financially with the kid issue. However he's not emotionally inclined to you all he wants is a physical relationship. Trust me on this
Secondly, If this guy really loved you he wouldn't have had problem with you having kids from your ex-husband. Come On When He said that he doesn't like you because you have kids, you should have dumped him that instance itself. You have responsibilities towards your kids first and then everything else.
Whereas the pregnancy is concerned it is solely upto, you having 3 children is a tough part if you think you can't deal with it then better get an abortion but if you think you can take care of the 3rd child aswell then make sure you fulfill all your kids needs.
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