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writes: I dont know if this is just me but my fiancee says I need to curb my jealousy. I do get really jealous sometimes but its because people flirt with her in front of me and she flirts back to get drinks out of them. Once she danced sexily with another guy in front of me and them wondered why I got angry with her. She never asks me to dance. She has a managers meeting for her work once a month where they discuss things and then go to a club afterwards. She doesnt come back until around 5am. How am I meant to trust her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2005): You need to sit down and talk about this. It seems you both think each other is in the worng. You need to make a comprimise before you start to forget how much fun it is being in a relationship and start focusing on difficult situations like this. You need try not to be so jelous before you lose all trust and she needs to understand that she is hurting you by not seeing why you find it so difficult when shes out late. Maybe once you prove that you can give her the freedom she needs, she wont find you so needy and will want to reward you by showing you more affection and being more considerate towards your feelings. It must be hurting you but she's probably also hurt that you dont trust her on nights out. It isn't fair that she flirts with other people but maybe this is a way of showing you shes angry at you. Have a good chat, give her some freedom and see how it goes. Don't bring up any of the past. Discuss how you can make things better for the future. Focusing on negative issues and bringing up old unresolved arguments will just take you round in circles. Stay positive. Think about all the things you love about yourself. Try not to rely on her for your own self confidence.
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