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*awnathome
writes:I found out about my husband's affair on October 24th by stumbling across an email from "her". He had been working away from home the past 3 years and came home once or twice a month. I guess there were others before "her" but for some reason she got under his skin and he almost left me for her. We will be married 10 years soon. Anyway, he is home and we are trying to work thru things. He wrote her a good bye email finally on Jan 1, something he didn't/wouldn't do before. The problem now is me. I am dwelling on everything that has happened and having a hard time letting go. He has apologized, wishes he could take it all back, loves me, loves the kids, wants to be a family...... How do I let go of his mistakes and mine? I do I let go of this anger I am holding inside???
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reader, dawnathome +, writes (19 January 2009):
dawnathome is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you so much for responding. I pray every day for guidance from all that has happened. Forgot to mention thru "her" I found out there were 2 before her. And also thru some digging found a porn site he was on looking for women. All these things I have found in a time frame of about a month and a half. I don't want to give up, I don't. I think something is wrong with me though as thru all of these things the ONLY one that keeps haunting me is that he told the last woman he loved her and I think even considered leaving me and the kids. This sorrow is killing me. I need advice on how to move thru it and how can he help me to do that????
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