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writes: Please, please, please help me! I dont know what to do. My boyfriend recently broke up with me and every time I start 2 get over him i see something that reminds me of him and I burst into tears! I need help. I can't go on without him! pls im desperate ill do anything 2 get him back!
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reader, Emma_Australila_1983  +, writes (27 November 2006):
 I also know how your feel. I've now been single for 11 months and I can tell you it does get easier. I remember how much pain I went through when we first broke up. I did the breaking up and then about 3 weeks later I thought I made a huge mistake and tried to get back together with him and he told me he never really loved me. That really hurt and I was crushed. Lookiong back now I think he did love me he was just hurting as well. You need to keep yourself really busy and start doing new things like a new sport, something you've always wanted to do. Do something just for you. Look after yourself and nuture yourself and move on. It will get easier, trust me. I never believed anyone when I was hurting so bad but it's true, it does get easier. Take Care hun and look forward to your future as a fun, independant single female. It really is so great and you should enjoy it while you can. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2006): hi
i know how hard it is , am there with you , in a very similar situation. 2 years of how much he loved me (more than i loved him apparently??) how we could do things together and how much he missed me when i wasnt around. the the hostility started when i was around ,then out of the blue, he didnt love me after all, just thought he did??? . the only advice i can offer though, other than my thoughts are with you, is keep distracted, keep busy, talk about it , and with anyone! u'll be suprised how many of us have been or are in the same situation. above all , look afetr yourself, cry when you need to , sleep and eat well , and remember the good/funny times you had to make you smile .i really do appreciate how hard it is , someone will come along, and turn your head , and if he didnt appreciate what a wonderful person you are, you deserve much better , and it will happen. just takes time , and its all a learning curve
my thoughts are with you, good luck and take care xx
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