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writes:It has been nearly a year since my girlfriend of ten years broke up with me and it is still beating me up. We had dated through college and were engaged to be married once. Up until the break up, she was the one. She was the only girl I had ever been with. I have been racking my brain on what happened, and I can not figure out why it happened. To me it seems like all happened so fast. One week, everything seemed alright (I thought); Next week, she is telling me she only sees me as a roomate, and that she wanted something better. I do not understand why she did not say anything before this all got out of hand. Was it a lack of trust? Or was it that the relationship had gotten stale? I still have days where I would take her back, and days where I think that I should move on. When I think I am moving on, something comes up to remind me of her, and what we had and I am a wreck all over again. I guess what I am asking is: Do I try to get her back or not? If yes, what would I have to do to convince her That my feelings have not changed for her? Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated.Signed Alone and Lost
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2007): you should talk to her and be honest, if you find that she's with someone new and is clearly happy, than you need to move on. 10 years is a long time, and you deserve to mourn this relationship. but don't dwell on it for much longer. your memories can be used to torture yourself or to better your days and make you smile. i wish you luck and keep us posted on the outcome and your progress!
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reader, Thomas17  +, writes (3 January 2007):
 well. getting her back..totally depends on you.. and whether shes ready to as well. maybe she fell for another guy? or lost intrest? you gotta know the factors before doing anything else yea. alright, if you do..that part im really not sure.. its pretty diffcult.. but best wishes to you alright.
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