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writes: Hiya, my boyfriend of a long time has just told me today he had a dreamed about doing it with another girl, a girl he was once with. that kinda worried me, but he assured me that he'll never do that. The girl lives abroad by the way now. so ya, it bothered me, should I be worried or just let it pass? Reply to this Question
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reader, forgetmenot +, writes (3 January 2007):
 eek eddie, that's scary. But to the OP a dream is just a dream. I've had dreams about guys that I wouldn't really be into in real life. Dreams are weird. I read somwhere that the person you dream about is just a symbol for something else. It's not about the person in the dream. It's just our brain trying to problem solve. It's really and truly nothing to be worried about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2007): It a dream!! Get real! How many dreams have you had when you were with someone else, maybe not sleeping with them. We have no control over dreams. I dreams loads and tell my bloke, we just laugh it off. Put it out of your head and worry about something real
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reader, eddie  +, writes (3 January 2007):
 Well he probably should have kept quiet about it. That was silly to tell you. On the other hand, how can you spend time worrying about a dream he had no control over. More than dreams' we have actual thoughts that are more threatening that that. For every woman he's dreamt about, there's probably 10 he's actually thought about. That's not meant to scare you, it's just the truth. You've probably thought about other men too. Maybe not sexually but in other ways.
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