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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I live in the United Kingdom,my wife to be lives in Africa, i love so much,she tells me that she misses me and she loves me, few days ago, her friend told me that she is in love with another guy who lives in the States,she has sent pictures to him,exchanged phone numbers and they are planning to marry, i did not believe this until when our friend got the cell phone for the guy in USA, I called him and h confermed me that it is true,he sent me all the emails she is been sending,all the pictures she has sent to him and she stated that she is single,she said to the guy that am her Ex! idont know, i havent talked to her about it, i have tried not to call her,but she does call me asking if i have any problem not to call her.What can i do, wha can i tell her now, am really hurt,please,help me and advise
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2009): Thank you very much for everybody who has tried to heal my hurting heart,God bless you all.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (1 February 2009):
And surprise surprise, she's asked you for cash.... I KNEW you were going to say she had.
So many men have been conned by women like this. It's an entire industry to meet a guy, bring them over, show them a great time for a week and then they send several hundred quid at a time for the next few years until they figure out what is going on.
I'm so sorry you have been hurt like this, but if she can't even be bothered to pay for a call to find out what is wrong with you then I think you have your answer.
Ask the American guy how much she asked him to pay to "cover her rent"?
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSomeone has asked me if i have ever seen her,yes, i went to africa last year,i saw,she took me to her parents, and for now, i have been supporting her by paying her rent,every week, i have to send £50.00,in fact i payed a full one year rent for her a partment.
Am really,even as am writing this, she has just called me,asked me if am ok,and i've said to her am not fine,am hurt but i dont why and she asked me to call her back.For sure, i dont feel like i have to,am sick.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (1 February 2009):
I think she has shown her true colours here. She's playing you and this other guy, and she may be playing others too.
Tell her that you know about her other man and see what she says, but if I were you then I would end it no matter what she says.
No one who agrees to marry you has any excuse for cheating, online or otherwise.
Good Luck!! xx
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