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writes: My wife of 23 years is bringing me down at every turn. She will sit up virtually all night(3.30 - 4.00am) and frequently masturbates, then revels in telling me. I get the blame of not wanting sex with her which is total rubbish. Shes now watching programmes about sex and vibrators and threatening to buy one. I would do anything for her, but this is really tearing me apart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2006): This "bringing me down at every turn" thing is a real problem.
You need to establish way more independance, because this sex thing is just the tip of the iceberg.
Get some outside interests, join some clubs or a gym and dont be around so much panting after her so you can get smacked down.
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reader, RedRobin +, writes (31 December 2005):
Well if you know she masturbates between 3:30 and 4:00 am take you an early nap. Set either a watch or cell phone alarm to awaken at that time. Get you some and then go back to bed.
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