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writes: Hi - My question is this..... My wife and I were happily married four years ago. We had some small problems (as you do) but most of the time we were able to work around it and keep things moving along and retain our happy marriage. About a year ago, she decided she wanted to study in another country, and although I found it hard to see her go - I said I would help her in this and it would be great for her to go to her dream. Well - two months after she was gone, she called and said we were over! - just like that! I could not understand why as we were getting along fine and I thought we had a happy marriage. I feel into despair and for some reason that I cannot explain I began going to massage parlors which made me feel worse, but I could not stop - It was like I was getting addicted to these places that I had never gone to when we were married. Two months ago she called me (she had turned off her phone, and did not respond to my emails) And said she was not sure about her hasty decision, and would like us to see if we could get back together. I feel worthless for what I have done, as I am usually a very high moral person with a very strong christian upbringing, and I have no excuse for this kind of behaviour. Can we mend our relationship? - I still love her dearly, and would do anything to get back with her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2005):
Since you were defacto split up I wouldn't worry about the massage parlor.
The big question is why are you taking back this disloyal woman? In my mind she has a lot to prove in terms of her character.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (13 December 2005):
 What exactly do you mean by massage palors? I assume you didn't just get your back rubbed or you wouldn't have the guilt, right? If you were unfaithful to your wife you need to tell her. I'm thinking maybe she's got something she may want to confess to you as well. Open the lines of communication and get to the bottom of it all.
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