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writes: i am 16, male, and i go to college, i really like college and i'm not bothered by anything, but i am wondering if my teacher wants me cause over the course i have been there my teacher has been doing these things that i like but i wonder if what she is doing is what i think it means1. she's always winking at me, for some strange reason whenever i give an answer to a question and i add extra detail (i'm one of 2 top people in the class), she winks at me and smiles, i never seen her do it to any1 else even if there answer was better then what i could come up with2, whenever i need help she comes over and puts both her hands on my shoulder blades and reads my answers and helps me out, but i notice when she does put her hands on my shoulders i feel her fingers constantly move in a rubbing motion ? it seems quite strange to me put i like it non the less espically when my shoulders are sore3. whenever she walks past me her bum brushes on my shoulders and even my head when i'm slouching in my chair thinking, and this happens in just about almost every lesson i have with her in it, and if she helps the student next to me she bends over with her bum near enough in my face cause she is that close and the two last thing that have convinced me to put this up is that once when she walked past me was when my hand literally touched her bum with actual contact and she said nothing about it she knew it happened cause i think she was smiling afterwards a few days after i put my hand up and i didn't know she was walking past as i was in deep thought and as my hand reached up to ask a question my hand grabbed her breast and i thought that was it i'm in for it now but still she said nothing and she was smiling afterward i want some advice please :) i don't mind whats happening cause i find it fun and Exciting i will wait to see what happens and if she wants a relationship i will wait until it is legal to do so, i think i have feelings for her although i think it's too early to think so
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2011): Be real careful with this pal. She sounds aggressive and thats not something to be naiive about. Some women will put never ending moves on a guy and because youre young she could see you as being more vulnerable to that. Bottom line here: You seem overall uncomfortable with her presence and behavior and honestly have more than enough to possibly file a genuine complaint with your school. If you can find other students that agree and have witnessed things she's done that indicate shes sexually interested, that could strengthen your complaint. Otherwise, Id say what you have here is plenty. You feel violated, possibly disrespected, and very offended. No teacher should make a kid feel like that. Come forth man and stand up! I def support you in bringing this issue to the school! Your safety and dignity are too important!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2011): Whether the teacher is attractive or ugly, young or old, male or female... this technically illegal.Depending of course on the age of consent laws where you live. Either way the minimum she can get is fired.Flynn 24
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