My son is 24 and his dad has never taken anything to do with him, now I here he's asking after us, what should I do?

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Question - (11 August 2007)

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A female age 51-59, anonymous writes:

hi, Just want advice on what to do. I have 2 sons, 24 and 15, the eldest one's dad has never acknowledged him since he was born. Now he's asking my friend to tell us he's sorry and asking after us. I don't want anything to do with him whatsoever. Please help.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2007):

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i wud just like to thank the annoyminus replyer, thanks very much thats the way me and my son both feel, he neva wanted him then so hes certinally not having anything to do with him now. in our eyes its far to late for regret. thanks again yr i in a million xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2007):

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thank for yr help

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A female reader, AskEve +, writes (12 August 2007):

There comes a time in a person's life when the feel full of guilt and remorse for not being able to be part of their child's life (for whatever reason). This time has come for your ex. Does your son know who his father is? You owe it to your son to at least let him know his father has been asking after him so that he can decide whether or not he wants to meet with him.

Whether or not YOU want to meet him is entirely up to you but you should at least give your son that right to be able to choose. I'm sure deep inside, HE has questions he'd like to ask his dad so leave the choice up to him.

Eve

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2007):

Well you need to ask your son does he want anything to do with him. Because if he does then he has a right to see his dad. He shouldn't of never seen his son but it's better then never. He will want to make ammense and your son may enjoy his company.

You don't have to have anything to do with him though I doubt because your sons old enough to make decisions for himself.

Good Luck xx

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