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My sister's boyfriend kissed me forcibly and she doesn't let me explain that it was not my fault!

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Question - (25 October 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 14 November 2008)
A age 30-35, * writes:

My sister's boyfriend (shes 17 and hes 18) came over to my place to watch a movie with her. I (im 15) was watching it then he put his arm around well my sis was in the bathroom and he even to kiss me. I tried my best to push him off but he was too strong. Than my sis came back and she was furious with us. She yelled at us then kick him out. She ended it with him and was in her room crying the whole night and wouldn't come out.

I admit I can be mean to her sometimes but I'll never do something like to her. What should I do? I talk to her about it but she'll tell me fu*k off.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2008):

Dear 15th old sister,

Here my suggestions:

1.) Stop trying to explain to your sister verbally, for she is sad and mad now.

2.) Show your love and care to her by action instead. You can show the ways differently, like:

1. Write to her and explain your true painfulness.

2. In the letter, tell her that you care about the

love of your sistership, please don't let a guy who betrayed her to break your relationship.

3. In this stage, please don't argue with her on this kissing issue, because it was over!

4. It may become a new start to your sister.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2008):

You need to tell her what happened.

If she will not let you talk to her, write her a letter? Email? Text?

She has to know, if he would do that to her sister, he would probaly have done it to her mates or any other girl.

It was better she found out then, than later on.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2008):

This is something not nice that happened to you. I am happy she kicked that "creep" out. Okay so she is hurting now, she is upset and will not listen to reason, but I am sure deep inside she knows you would not do that. However, give her a little time to calm down and then explain to her.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2008):

If she isn't willing to listen, write her a letter explaining everything and tell her you love her so much and you will never break her trust.She must be heartbroken right now so give it some time.

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