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My sister is being rude and judgemental about my girlfriend, Am I wrong to feel anger towards her ?

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Question - (3 May 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 May 2007)
A male United States age 30-35, *k06 writes:

I met my girlfriend about a year ago. We have a mutual friend that brought us together. I care about her very much.

My sister is making unfair assumptions about her. My girlfriend's cousin that lived in our town was very promiscuous, and my sister assumes that my girlfriend is the same way. She is not that way. Its unfair because my cousins are promiscuous, and I'm not. So that goes to show that just because a close family member is promiscuous, that doesnt mean you are.

My sister is very mean to my girlfriend, and its pushing me away. My girlfriend was very kind to my sister until my sister began spreading untrue rumors about her.

I cant help but be angry with my sister. She is being rude and judgmental. Am I wrong for feeling anger towards her?

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A female reader, agony_emz United Kingdom +, writes (3 May 2007):

agony_emz agony auntyou do have the right to be angry but as mitch said it can be she's being protective! but why dont you try and talk all 3 of you and get anything that is on all your minds and from that you will be able to move on from this, but just don't push your sister away as she will be there at the end of it!

hope it works out for you! x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2007):

you know what it is she's jelous I know that may sound kind of weird but it could be true something simmaler happened to my parents she more then likely feels that it wont be the same between you to any more the friendship you know? so just sit her down and talk to her and tell her. and nope you have ever right to be angry with her

hope this helps

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