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My husband threatens to take our son back to India if I do not become submissive! Should I change?

Q.   Hello, My husband was a very nice guy when we married and when we moved from india to USA he couldnt get a decent job and started the trouble and he is very egoistic. now he is a piece of scrap. I have a 6 year old son, I earn and im a ...

A.   22 May 2007: I can suggest u only one thing, it depeneds on what you prefer, if you prefer that you breal this relation then finsih right now and odnt worry about that he can take you r child. No body can do that. Second if you prefer to stay with the same then ... (read in full...)

Ive lost all confidence with women, I have a good job, house etc, but underneath it all I'm stuck in this rut and desperately unhappy!

Q.   I have been seperated from my wife of 14yrs for over 9 months and in that period i have had a couple of relaionships one which hurt me alot. We split because i didnt love her following many years of her gambling addiction and all the lies and stuff ...

A.   20 May 2007: Take a break from thinking all this for some time. JUst relax. And let the things happen dont force....Will bring ur confidence back... (read in full...)

Should I tell my bf I saw another man come out of the shower with just a towel on?

Q.   I am an Indian girl in USA and have a boyfriend in India who I known since 6 years. I went on a business trip with this friend of mine (male,Indian) who is sweet and nice but I have never developed any sort of feelings for him. We were sharing a b...

A.   20 May 2007: Hi Sweety, First i am indian male. So i think i can give u some suggestion. First you dint do any thing wrong. But i think still will be better , not to tel ur boyfriend. If you are not wrong .Dont feel bad and just forget everything. If u can, just ... (read in full...)

Can this still be classed as rape as I just gave in to get it over quicker ?

Q.   i dont know if i was raped or not. i went to a party last week and got quite drunk. i didnt think i was that drunk but i do remeber people saying that i was sluring my words and there are parts of the night that i cant remeber. about 3 in the...

A.   20 May 2007: Whatever happend is not ur fault at all. And u should be worried about it. Its rape...U tell ur boy friend immediately with out delay. If he love u truely, he will understand and teach his friend a good lesson. U should not think it as ur fault. And ... (read in full...)

How can I learn to trust men, when every guy I've dated dumps me after sex!?

Q.   Okay, I dated this guy for like a week, and it was more of just a fling, but does that give him a right to just dump me after having sex.. even though I told him all about my past and how every guy always does that to me. He promised he wouldn't ...

A.   20 May 2007: First every one is not the same. You have to learn to understand about people. If you will pay attention. You will know the true. take time before sex. Dont give up quickly....Enjoy...Dont worrry..Richi... (read in full...)

Should i move on because I feel am wasting my time on a relationship that is going no where, and yet am getting older....

Q.   Dear aunts, i have been in a relationship for close to three yrs with a muslim guy, am christian. Two yrs ago he proposed to me but my mum failed to accept it so i postponed the wedding for a few months. when my family finally accepted him, we set a ...

A.   17 May 2007: Hi Asha The way he is behaving, i think he dont want to continue. Talk to him finally and tell him that u want to decide. He understand then ok or go away....And the best is waiting for u... (read in full...)

How do I overcome feeling so nervous in having to give a presentation in front of my class?

Q.   I need help on how to overcome my nervousness. This week I am doing a presentation to my English class, and I am quite scared. I don't like to speak in large groups. There are at least 25 students in the class. I'm afraid that the students will ...

A.   17 May 2007: Only one thing i can tell, Prepare well before the presentation, Tell your self you are the best and give as more as presentations as u can... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend addicted to porn?

Q.   my boyfriend of 3years has stopped any sexual contact with me what so ever and the second he gets to be alone he looks at porn on the computer well the 40inch hd tv computer screen that is (great)! he got his pc last september and weve had sex about ...

A.   17 May 2007: Yes, but just talk to him. This is not the reason to leave anyone. Because sooner or later the person realize that he is wrong. But its your duty to make him feel that he is addicted and help him come out.Good luck:-)... (read in full...)

Is my simply being lazy now when it comes to oral sex ??

Q.   im 19 and my girlfriend who is 18 have been together 4 and a half years, but started sleeping together about 2 and a half years ago, she used to love me gowing down on her but now its like shes a completly different women and hates it, she do...

A.   11 May 2007: Well you should not be bothered about that. With age preference changes, if she dont like you should understand. Dont make her feel that she is doing wrong by telling no for oral... (read in full...)

since he found out about my religion he's ignoring me

Q.   their is this guy i met through a friend, he was very cute, and i instantly had a crush on him. i was suppose to write a article on something he was working for. so he contacted me and i went there. after that we started messaging each other. and we ...

A.   11 May 2007: Try to ask whats the problem. May be he is scared of his family. So react after knowiing the truth sweety.... (read in full...)

I need help with premature ejaculation!

Q.   Hi All I had problem of Premature Ejaculation with my only 2 out of 4 sex experiences with diffrent girls. Someone in this forum suggested me to stop masturbating which i normally used to do every day. Now i stopped completely because the pers...

A.   10 May 2007: Thanks alot sweeties...Rikki... (read in full...)

Do I miss her because I'm alone, or do I miss her because I love her?

Q.   2 years ago I moved overseas with my girlfriend of 3 years. Everything went wrong almost straight away - mainly because she couldn't find work and I went away all the time with my job. She became depressed and took all her anxieties out on me which ...

A.   8 May 2007: Love is the best feeling of the world....Missing someone is having a diffrent feeling....So give you time and think,Evenif you are with other beautiful girl and thinking about your girl every moment....Then you are in love....So World is small than ... (read in full...)

How do I best please my girlfriend so that she will forget how clumsy I was the first time?

Q.   I had sex for the first time with my girlfriend (and ever) a few days ago. It was so bad even I had to admit that to myself, and it was my fault. It was really clumsy among other things. Should I just ask her what makes her aroused or should I just ...

A.   8 May 2007: Dont worry at all..Be relax..Behave normally with her..So when you have another chance...Just think of giving alot of pleasure to her...BUT you should forget everything in the world other than sex at that time....Forgot the past...If you want to do ... (read in full...)

He woke me up, put his penis in my mouth and told me to SUCK!!!

Q.   I love my boyfriend very much, but my friends think he's no good for me. He always tells me how sexy I am and how he thinks Im amazing in bed. I don't see how this is 'using me' as my friends think. The only thing that disturbs me, is that ...

A.   7 May 2007: If you are ok...Then no problem....Otherwise it is very bad if he do this....... (read in full...)

Why don't guys like tall girls?

Q.   ok, im 13 and ive never had a boyfriend because of my height. Why don't guys like tall girls and i masturbate a lot it that normal?...

A.   7 May 2007: Dont worry, Lot of boys like tall girls, i am one of them. Wait for the right boy. About Masturbate, do what your body needs and enjoy........ (read in full...)

My GF of 8 years still sees her abusive husband all the time, even spends holidays with him! I can't accept this anymore!

Q.   My partner has lived with me for 8 years and escaped from an abusive husband to be with me. Over the last four years she has spent holidays with him, phones him everyday, meets up for dinner, drinks etc. She tells me she loves me more than anything...

A.   7 May 2007: Please be clear right now. Talk to her what you feel and think. If she understand, THE BEST.Otherwise i know,if you love her alot,it will be very difficult but be a strong man and take a decision.... (read in full...)

My past performances have made me worried about sleeping with my new girlfriend!

Q.   I am a male of 25 years.I had sex only 4 times. But i usaully masturbate. My exp of sex with women is very bad.In 2 out of 4 times i suffered premature ejaculation because i was anxious and worried.In these 2 times, my dick was not strong and when i ...

A.   6 May 2007: Hey Steven, why you think that stopping masturbation will help him???... (read in full...)

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