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*mnicebuttdim
writes:My partner will not marry me until both my parents and her parents are gonna give us their blessings, what can i do? I know it is difficult for us both and she has said that she feels she is a burden and that maybe it is fate that is making them not approve our relationship. I dont know what to do please advise? Reply to this Question
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reader, AskEve +, writes (16 March 2007):
 You are both adults and should be able to marry with or without your parents' consent. Yes, it would be nice if they gave you both their blessing but you could be waiting years if at all for this to happen. In the meantime I would try to prove both sets of parents wrong. Let them see that you were made for one another by your actions. Talk to your girlfriend and try to compromise in some way. You could maybe say to her to give it a year, if they don't come round then you both get married regardless.
Eve
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reader, imnicebuttdim +, writes (15 March 2007):
imnicebuttdim is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt is me to both of the questions, both parents are not happy as they think we are not suitable for each other and they think we can't make each other happy, I am 26 and my girlfriend is 22, she wants to wait until they are all happy with us getting married and even though I proposed to her and she said yes she still wants to wait and has told me that she doesn't know how long we are going to have to wait but she wants to wait and me being the patient guy I am - I just live with it.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (15 March 2007):
Are you the same person who wrote this question below?
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-does-she-not-want-to-have-sex.html
What is the problem with both sets of parents? How old are you and your girlfriend? Why aren't both your parent's happy about you both wanting to be married?
Eve
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