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writes: I need to know other people's perspectives on this problem. Don't be judgemental, just put yourself in my shoes. Two years ago my bf broke up with me and I went on vacation (4 hours east) and met a guy at the bar. I took it to be a one night stand, but one week later he phoned me at home. I went back there to visit him and I fell in love. Well, the relationship ended without a word and a month later I got back together with my ex and now we have a 9 month old son together. I still can't help myself thinking about my one night stand guy and I'm questioning my current relationship because of it. Please help me!!!
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reader, becky05 +, writes (17 July 2005):
Forget the one night stand, its in the past and he obviously didnt want to be with you if he ended the relationship. If you are not happy in your current relationship, you need to ask yourself why and take steps to change things.
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reader, Cupid's Helper +, writes (16 July 2005):
Dear Ex-Factor - Please forgive yourself for the one-night stand which led to a short-term relationship. You and your boyfriend had broken up. Put that neatly on the top shelf. You're human, and as humans do, we think of past relationships from time to time.Be kind to yourself and to the person you are currently involved with and give of yourself, your time, your creativity, your love, your kisses, your smiles and your laughter. Enjoy each other and your son and soon, most thoughts of all others will gently fade away. I wish you well.
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