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writes: I met a really lovely lady at a train station of all places and fell for her almost straight away. Anyway, later I found out that she had a boyfriend but at this stage my emotions had taken over. When I found out that she had a boyfriend I rightly backed off, but inside it was killing me. She often says to me how lovely I am etc (but that is just her way). I think I have got a bit obsessed with her.The problem is that I see her every week-end with her boyfriend at a certain venue shall be say. It is really beginning to upset me. I know running away is not the answer but staying in close proximity to her upsets me.What should I do?Also, this young lady is rather flirty (perhaps without really meaning to be). I am terrible at reading signals but she shakes like a leaf whenever she is near to me. She is not scared of me by the way...There is a bit of a "history" between us in the sense that she liked me before she met the boyfriend-she used to follow me around etc.I know it is time to move on but would like some advice as what to do or not to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2005):
Now I am obsessed with the train station girl!
One day on the train just tell her "you know I am really interested in you. I'd like to see you out socially if you and your boy friend dont work out." Sounds very mature, doesnt it?
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