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My Muslin parents are extremist and I'm not allowed to do anything!

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Question - (8 May 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 May 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, anonymous writes:

I need help. I have such extremist parents. I am a Muslim and I'm not allowed to do anything.

I'm not allowed to go to my friend's houses.

I'm not allowed to go to the park.

I'm not allowed to go to town.

I'm not allowed to go out.

I'm not allowed to invite my friends over.

I'm not allowed to got to the cinema

I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend.

It's not fair! Lot's of Muslims have girl/boyfriends.

At school there is this guy I know, he asked me out and I said maybe. Should I go out with him or not?

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A female reader, deirdre Ireland +, writes (9 May 2012):

would you be ablt to ask your parents to meet your friends? so that they are not threatened or intimidated by them? perhaps once they meet your friends and see that they are nice people, they might relax a bit. make sure it is only female friends though, that way they cant accuse you of having a boyfriend.

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (8 May 2012):

The Realist agony auntTry talking to your parents in the most adult way that you can that you are feeling like an outcast because you aren't able to be a kid like your friends at school. I wouldn't hide anything from them. Instead I would be very forward about what you want to do in order to blend your customs with your friends so that you can fit in.

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