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writes:ok so i am 16 years old as is my boyfriend of seven months. about a month or so ago we started having sex. we love each other very much he is not using me and he is a really great guy and we have a great realationsship. but last week my mother found out we were having sex from overhearing me tellig my cousin. she is so mad at me now and she wont let my bf over or let me at his house. she legit hates this kid now and she is really mad at me too and says she wont get over it. what should i do? i really dont know how to deal with this i really want this to be over with my mom but as much as she is looking for me to say i regret it i dont at all. by the way we are very careful when we do it like condoms+pulling out every time. i need some advice please help me out :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): Hi there!
I do feel your mother should support you as long as youre being safe with sex. Thats excellent. However, it is her house and her rules as the saying goes and that needs to be respected by yourself. I think your mom and yourself need some sort of compromise here. Perhaps ask her about him only coming over on weekends or perhaps just suggest to your BF that itd be better to "get busy" lol at his house and ask him if thatd be okay to go there. Id stay away from public places definitely but if you and your BF for the time being can survive without sex for some periods, just go to a hotel every now and then. Hope this helps. Good luck.
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reader, uncle bob  +, writes (23 March 2011):
 Your mother's mad at you because she loves you, and doesn't want you to go through all the pain and heartbreak your about to step into.At your age, once you add sex to a relationship, everything changes. You are far more emotionally invested with this guy than you would have been if you weren't having sex. In your mother's eyes, your risking pregnancy, disease, and your reputation. You may think these can't happen to you, but she knows they can.Hey, she's your mom, and she loves you.Be happy you have a mom that does love you, there are so many others that don't!Remember, she just wants to protect you.
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