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My married lover says he's living in the same house but different rooms

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Question - (15 March 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 April 2011)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I have been dating a married man since 2008.

He is upside down in the house by $200,000 and cannot qualify for a shortsale. He tells me he is getting a divorce and they live in the same house but different rooms.

They have no kids. They are not sleeping together and it is over between them.

He is very involved with my kids and we have had all major holidays as a family.

My biggest problem is my head cant get past the fact that they still live together and that I keep beating him up verbally over the fact that he has not been able to figure it out financially.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2011):

Ok....no she does not know about me. He said he will be divorced by Sept 1st and yes he stays with me alot. That said we just got back from vacation in Hawaii.

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A female reader, angelDlite United Kingdom +, writes (15 March 2011):

angelDlite agony aunthi

does his wife/ex-wife whatever he calls her know about you and has she met you? are you allowed in the house? is he able to stay out with you all night? go away for weekends etc? be careful with him, maybe she is not aware the marriage is over!

xx

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A male reader, Weeks India +, writes (15 March 2011):

Weeks agony auntCan you move in with him and share his room for a week or so? You will be able to sense the vibes. One problem will be, where will the kids stay during that period? May be, with their father?

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