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My man was sleeping with other women, and then he told me to stay away from him. Is it over?

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Question - (10 August 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 August 2008)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

To make long story short I was sleeping with a man for 5 yrs found out that he was sleeping with other women went to his job when I knew he would be getting off to speak to him got cursed out and was told to leave him alone and to stay awya from him etc.. So after a month of not speaking to him i decided to call just to say Hi and to see what was going on. He answered the phone and when he realized who was on the other end told me to never call his house again.

The two other people that I talk to about this told me that even though he said this to me that there will come a day where he will contact me. They said that even though he told you to leave him alone and never call his hous doesn't necessarily mean whtaever we had going on is over. That most people will tell you it's over when it is not say things like leave me alone and don't call me.

I see it as it's over and it's time to move on. What does anybody else think? Is it over or will he try to contact me again?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008):

Men don't normally say one thing and mean another unless they've got a 'female' brain.

Only he knows if he's going to contact you again, but I'd guess not. Maybe those people were telling you it ain't over until the fat lady sings were just trying to cheer you up.

I wouldn't put my life on hold if I were you!

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A female reader, MorganRenee United States +, writes (10 August 2008):

MorganRenee agony auntHmmm If you found out that he was sleeping with other women and you two were just sleeping together then maybe he actually had something going with one of these other women and is trying to push you away....I'd deff. move on even though I belive in due time he will contact you again....but I wouldnt get back into anything with him again

***Missy***

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