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*upcake143
writes:Okay so my boyfriend and i have been dating for 4months now and well it's long distance.. He teells me he loves me. Now he hasn't talked to me in a week and he like ignoring me.. Everyone tells me he don't love me and that he's ceating on me. Idk who to belive.. Hes been ignoring e and idk anymore.. I'm confused. Please help
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reader, froznsoul +, writes (4 December 2012):
Getting him off your mind feels hard, but there's plenty of things you can do. You could hang out with your friends more, spend time with your family, concentrate more on school, or pick up some new hobbies. I know it hurts now, but the pain will heal in time.
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reader, Cupcake143 +, writes (1 December 2012):
Cupcake143 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni met himthrough his cousin then we video chatted and things went well, im confused i do text him but he hasnt replied. But he used to tell me everyday "Dork+Weirdo forever&always i will NEVER let you go, iLoveYouBabe3;" That made my day nd now i just dnt know if he really ment it. I just hope he'll text back. So like im confused. Everything reminds me of him how can i get him off of my mind for a while.?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (1 December 2012):
 Sweet young thing, you are too young for an LDR. You need time and money to have a long distance relationship. This is something teens are always short of.
If you never even met this boy then you don't know who he is at all and you were just online friends. It still hurts that he's being a jerk and not telling you what's going on but there is not much you can do if he won't talk to you or contact you.
I know you thought you loved him and he said he loved you... and it really felt that way... but it just is not the case.
The pain will pass... time is what you need to heal yourself.
Keep busy with your friends.. go out do things have fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2012): I think I've been in a situation like this before. I believe that you should confront him and ask him why he's being like this. He could be having some personal problem you're not aware of, or maybe it's something else. Throughout your relationship, is it usually him who initiates a conversation or something? Maybe he's waiting for you to be the one to initiate a conversation?
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