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writes: I am in love with a man of Jamaican descent. He and I began as friends because we are both into some of the same things. I knew all along that there was a physical attraction almost immediately. I also knew that he was involved already and for that reason at first I declined any romantic gestures. After about 1 year of us being friends we went further and were intimate. At that time my feelings and his to say the least changed from being friends to something else. His girlfriend has called my phone trippin' and we got past it we have still been going out and sleeping together but now I am slowly starting to see a change. He is beginning to be real distant. We'll go out, he'll come and pick me up and not come in, drop me off and not come in. No sex, no hugs or kisses, but last night at the club he couldn't keep his hands off me. Help I'm in love with a Jamaican! Reply to this Question
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (17 July 2006):
 I don't understand is he still with his girlfriend or not? If so then you are probably just the flavor of the month or the year. If wants to change up from his girlfriend then he calls you and hangs out with you. If he is not then he has someone else on the side and you are being put in the shoes of his ex. Keep in mind some men don't find cheating to be wrong if they started cheating with you and you accepted it. In that case you made yourself a victim, because the same way you got him is the same way you can lose him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2006): There could be a lot of things determining the change in his behavior. The fact that he has a past of cheating, though, can never be a good sign. Sit down with your Jamaican man and have a heart-to-heart. Find out why he has been acting differently, and while you're on it, find out where you and him are standing right now. Maybe he's not really aware that you thought he was supposed to be faithful. It may seem silly, but with men, you never know. Just talk to him, and ask him what's with the changes. If he's a decent guy worth being in a relationship with, he'll listen.
I wish you the best of luck. I hope everything works out okay for you in the end. Stay strong!
~RJGirl
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