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writes:My husband has a lot of friends who are girls. Recently he told me that he likes to show my naked photos to his female friends and may be a video of two of us having sex. The thought turns me on. Is his behaviour normal? or is it reason for concern? help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2009): Wether or not this is normal, the real problem here is that someone (your husband) is making the decision as to who gets to see you naked. I think that decision should be left up to you....whom he shows these pictures to can affect your life dramatically from here forward. Please rethink this policy.
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reader, wonderingcat  +, writes (10 March 2009):
 The thought turns both you on? Or just him? As long as both of you are okay with it, I guess it is okay. The only thing I am concerned about is your sexy photos and sex videos are put them on the web. Would that be okay for you? If no, then make sure that no one could get a hold of copying those photos and sex video But if you are fine with it, it is also up to you. The other concern is, if you decided to have children, and they saw these pictures and videos, would you be okay also? Or their friends in school saw them? Or you or your husband decided to run for a public office?Back to your question: the behaviour is normal (whatever turns you on) in your private domain, but when it is out in public domain, the the society will have their say. And what is acceptable as shaped by the public norm in Brazil for instance, may be considered outlaw in Saudia Arabia, or may mean nothing in Bali for instance.
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reader, Chelz247  +, writes (10 March 2009):
Thats strange. Maybe your husband is into that kind of stuff. Talk to him about it before assuming any bad things. Once you get your response figure out what you want to do about it .:)
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