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writes: my hubby says i am not his love...1 he used to say that he has fallen in love not physicaly but virt:ualy but now he says he does not know who is love but i am not his love....2:he remained conected his collegue;..long cals...e.mails...live chating;..obviouly it was disturbing for me but he use to say i have no trust on him...its insulting for me but 1 day i read his e.mail he was saying do not break friendship it will take his heart....and i have told every thing to my wife but never told about you...he came to know about my reading and become worse for me that i has broke his trust;..3:now a days no long cals and live talk but msgs...he admited this..he did this for me he says he loves me but i am not his love...his love is virtual...he will not get it but keep loving and missing till death...remain sad and listing sad songs in her love...i feel pain in my heart..;he says i am before you and with you...doing nothing but missing some thing...why he does admit his name...use virtual and for his friendship he says when i say she is my friend its mean til death;..i make relation from heart so can not break her heart4:now he says he does not know who is his love but sure i am not....wants my help and support....want to overcome this...remain busy...wants a space...says we r just husbend and wife..do not expect more i.e his lover....says he is going mental but i think i am going mental...he wants to leave him with this condition..5:how can i bear yhis.?how can i help him?how can i understand him?how can i get emotios love and spice in love...plz give me suggestions and yours advices...most people and specaily agony aunts and uncles...i nead more discusion at this...may b every body can help me8 Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (2 October 2010):
 It is not your place to help it its him that should be helping you. Darling this is just awful but am afraid im going to be brutal here and be honest with you, because its my job to be, you need to leave this man, you need a divorcee and get away from him, he does not respect you or your feelings, he is breaking your heart and he doesnt care, no girl deserves this and you are far better without him, yes there will be lots of tears when it is over but you soon become a strong independant women and you will find some one that deserves you and treats you well and loves you.
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