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female
age
41-50,
*ahrina
writes:I am 28years old my husband is 31 and I love him alot.but since when I have joined him in Dubai he has become very mean.He doesnt kiss me touch me and even doesnt like to do sex with me.whenever I beg him than only he does but with full concentration in order to release himself only NOT me( I think).He looks at my other church member women not with bad eyes but it seems that he is very much impressed with them.He doesnt talk to me, unless it is necessary.he never ask me ok marin let us go for outing or dinner or some park.when I ask him to do something he ignores and at the same time when someone else ask him the same thing to him to do than he does he is very clever he tackle the situation and pretent that he didnt notice that i am also asking him the same,he go to bed and sleep although I touch him also but he ignores and say ok ok we will do tomarow or thursday and that never comes.when i wear something good he doesnt give any compliments even when i angrily ask him Am I looking nice he say with no expression yes.He doesnt look into my eyes.I am a working women. please HELP me I am so disturb last week we had a big fight also he slapped me also.bcoz of that.when I call him from my office than he says ok bi I am busy doing this or that or taking care of our daughter.I think that he thinks that I am not beautiful and smart as the other girls. actually I am good and smart I am 5.6'' tall having good figure and features but I have brown spots on my face on nose and upper cheeks which also not make me look ugly but every women ask me in front of him why mahrina they are becoming prominent? and I have judged that now he is also thinking about my face that I am not matching with him because he is really fair handsome with brown eyes( looks like a play boy).tell me what should I do should I ignore him or leave him or survive him in the way as he is now? He is soooooooo stuborn.he wants only what he says to be done? this is now 5 years of our marriage he didnt give me any present on any of my anniversary or my birthday.He is very good ladies tailor but doesnt stitch for me and I dont give to other tailor so I wear always old clothes in the church.and I look the worst because of my skin and old clothes in the church among all the other women he is admired.
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reader, nayla +, writes (6 July 2010):
I have little bit same problem like yours, my husband also ignores me and some he dosent give any attention, well i know its very painful for every women who loves her husband and in return he take all that forgranted. what i have suggest you is only try to ignore him as much as you can. just leave him.. if he tried to ignore you on bed or some other place try to give no attention over it. and one thing which is very important try to attach your self with any of your intresting activity.. this will help you to kepp your self away from him and also make you relax. believ me it will realy work. tc
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reader, mahrina +, writes (21 December 2008):
mahrina is verified as being by the original poster of the question hey for the last few days he is back he careress me my face and talk to me also, but I dont know for how many days he will do it because as per youl suggestion I talked to him than only he is doing all this but still he doesnt give compliments to me. and sometimes it seems that he is doing it by force.
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reader, mahrina +, writes (17 December 2008):
mahrina is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyou said that you will talk to him but how he doesnt use internet.
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reader, mahrina +, writes (15 December 2008):
mahrina is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo he was with my brother in laws and brothers all the time. because he is working for my elder brother company.i know that he is not envolved in other women but impressed by other women.I dont like his attitude at all.Sometime I want to beatttttttttttttttt him also.but that i cant do since we are living with my sister who is married and have family and when I am at work she is the one who takes care of my daughter.
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reader, SoftlyCaress  +, writes (14 December 2008):
 I was away from my husband for awhile also and went through the same things but I found that while I wasnt with him he was with someone else we are now after 26 yrs going through a divorce.. It might not be the same with yours as sometimes when you are apart you have time to step back ans re access the relationship
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reader, mahrina +, writes (14 December 2008):
mahrina is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi thanks for your answer you have asked that how long was I aparted from him? I was aparted for 3months only. when he arrived here with the work purpose he called me also.
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