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writes: My husband of less than 1 year has signed up on a dating site under a fake name and picture. He has been asking women for their pictures and writing dirty things to women on that site(he could be on more but I have no way of knowing).I just found out when he said he was going to set up a profile of a toothless hillbilly to pick on my daughter who was on that dating site also. He didn't tell me he was had set one up and when he did send an email to my daughter I figured it was him cause he used a pic of a singer I knew. That was a couple months ago and he has been on there a lot...Anyway do you consider it cheating and what should I do?Distressed in PEI Reply to this Question
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reader, mystify +, writes (13 March 2006):
 i would consider this cheating , you dont have to have sex with someone to cheat, even so this is a form of sex , just like phone sex is, "just bored" is not an excuse or a reason, in answer to your question of how to deal with this betrayal,you deserve better and should find someone who will adore you! then you will get over it :0) x
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reader, rebellious_desire +, writes (13 March 2006):
rebellious_desire is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo,he has not met any of the women,that i am sure of.I confronted him and he said he was'just bored' well this does not really help me to forgive him,why would he do something like that if he says he loves me so much? I cant even bear to talk to him right now,how do i deal with this betrayal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2006): Does he know that you know about him logging onto these dating websites and making profiles so that he can talk dirty to women on there? If not then tell him. Ask him if he's ever met up with any of the women he's flirted with. If so he's probably cheated on you. If that's the case then you deserve better than him. Also tell your daughter that your husband is sending her emails and has used that picture of the singer. I'm sure that she'll be concerned by it. You should leave him, you deserve someone who loves you, not someone who is making profiles to chat up women on those dating sites.
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