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My husband is so distant since I've had the baby...

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Question - (6 September 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 September 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

What does it mean when my husband is so distant after we just had a baby? He doesn't want do anything with me anymore and that he works all the time from 8 until 9 at night. I think he does that so he wont spend time with me. That we dont even have sex anymore, I try with everything but it doesn't seem to work so i just cry myself to sleep. Can you give some advice?

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (7 September 2010):

Moo's Mum agony auntCould be that he now sees you as a mother and not a lover which I've heard does happen to some men. Also he could be feeling the burden of being the sole breadwinner for 2 mouths and is feeling stressed by his responsibilities. Can you sit down with him and ask him what's going on and tell him how bad you are feeling by his distance?

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