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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Please help me! My husband has gone from an amazing lover to not even wanting me. He's even gone as far as going into the other room to watch porn instead of waking me up for sex at night, which I'm up for. It's killing me because he used to love doing everything to me and getting it in return but now it feels like he'd rather watch his shemale porn than me. When we do have sex he talks about me watching a shemale do things to him. I've even gone so far as pegging him. I don't think he's going to be happy until he has a shemale. I'm not willing to share him so if he does I'm gone. Am I overreacting? I just don't know what to do. I use his laptop and there's all kinds of tranny porn. I used to watch it with him because he always ended it with me but now he's almost removed me from the situation. I just don't know what to do anymore.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (9 May 2012):
 He sounds like he has an addiction. This has nothing to do with you or whether he loves you or finds you attractive, so don't take this as a reflection on you. You should visit this website for more info:
http://www.yourbrainonporn.com
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2012): He has had enough of the normal porn and gone onto the worse stuff :( I'm sorry. I've read in some other places about men liking tranny porn, I don't think he wants a tranny he just needs the visuals.
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reader, 1sunshine +, writes (9 May 2012):
 Do you possibly think that he might be gay? Tranny's are men dressed as women..... kind of strange if you ask me... I would be scared if my guy was found watching that shit :/
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reader, MrWombat  +, writes (9 May 2012):
 Have you gotten fat?
If not, then the usual solution if one of the partners has a difficult kink is *communication* - which does not mean you haranguing him - and negotiation. We do it my way Tuesdays, your way Sundays kind of deal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2012): he's addicted to porn.It's the fantasy he is infatuated with. He will need counseling fast before the addiction leads to an affair.
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