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writes:I have been married for 2 years now, and we have a one year old daughter. Before we got married my husband cheated on me, I didnt know, but his family did. No one told me I found out when I was 3 months pregnant, it still hurts and I cant get over it. Help!
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (1 April 2011):
 It's hard to get over the fact that someone you love has cheated on you because the trust is completely destroyed and it takes a long time to rebuild.
It can be done, but it takes time and a lot of effort on both sides. A relationship can recover from this, counseling is the best option if you are comfortable with it. Love is strong and can prevail.
CHeating can stem from a lot of different problems and those problems need to be figured out and addressed so you both can move on with your lives. I can't believe his family knew and didn't say anything, do they act differently towards him?
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reader, lovelyeyes +, writes (1 April 2011):
I understand why the family didn't say anything. They didn't want to get involoved. If I knew my bro was cheating on his wife it would kill me but I would never tell on him. I would be realy mad @ the boyfriend if it doesn't change try taking a break its gonna be hard,but u need to do this for u. Your a mom now so u can't think only about how that did u wrong he's also risking the chance for the baby to have a family. Its prob gonna get worst for u before it gets any better so just keep your head up. Don't feel bad for him when he cries he didn't feel bad for u. Take your time w/this. Don't rush w/anything.
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