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My husband calls me a fat cow bitch

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Question - (3 January 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 January 2009)
A female United States age , *addy7 writes:

I live with a husband that drinks lives in the bar does not work much does drugs has got me to do what he does and i hate every minute of it. here recently i stopped being a part of what he does and life has been hell, i was told to never divorce and to take the bad with the good. i am 57 years old, have nothing and can hardly visit my children and grandchildren. I am over weight and am told i am a fat cow bitch, i am a whale and that no one will want me. I have a job and do a good job at my job, just not enough money to live on, my husband takes all he can for himself and i stay so unhappy and prey that he will love me like i love him what to do

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009):

Sorry, but that don't sound like love to me - if he loved you at all he would make some kind of effort. He sounds pretty disgusting. You need to tell him that either he changes or you leave. This is clearly getting you very down (understandably) and you deserve someone who cares about you. This relationship is also not doing anything for your physical health! Move out if he won't make an effort and find someone who cares =]

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009):

hey im a 13 years olds and i think i know were yyour coming from my dad was beaten as a kid and now treats my mum like crap to. always drinking and his drugs which leads to more arguments and fight i think someone who is taking u for granted dont deserve you and i might just be 13 but i know hoow my mum feels so you must be pretty down to. dont let him treat you like this get up and do some thin about it see what can be changed and how to make life easyer for deserve more respect...

u probably think im stupid but i wouldnt let no one push me aaround

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009):

For him to treat you the way he does, he can't be a prince charming himself. It's never to late to find happiness. You may have to start with a studio apartment, but girl get out. Life is short. Where there is will, there is a way.

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