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writes:Hey guys, i'm going on holiday at half past 5 tomorrow morning to America (currently in England) i'll be there for two weeks and it has only been 3 days since I said goodbye to my boyfriend but I already miss him so much that I end up in tears because I just really miss him and I know he misses me too because he left me a message. My holiday hasn't even started and I already can't wait until it's over this may sound pathetic but i'm scared I may come back to a single life. Is it normal to feel this way?Thanks guys. xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2007): I am often in this situation due to work and its always hard the first couple of days but while your away you'll realise how much you both appreciate each other! Have a great holiday and don't let it spoil it x
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reader, Reebe +, writes (8 January 2007):
 Yes it's normal but relax and enjoy your holiday! he isn't going to go off you in a couple of weeks! Some time apart might be nice imagine the fun you can have when you get back. "absence makes the heart grow fonder" and it's good sometimes to have some time apart, Enjoy your holiday!
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reader, Manya  +, writes (8 January 2007):
This is not quite out of the blue -- BUT, is there anyway he could come along?
Or, could you shorten your stay? Everyone is boosting you up, which is great, but these pre-scheduled "vacations" can be awful. I know this from personal experience. I have seen them damage realtionships. Although, sometimes they could save a relationship. It always seems a pity not to spend your vacation with the bloke you love.
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reader, Big boy +, writes (8 January 2007):
 He must be a nice guy for you to feel, that way about him... this might make your relationship a lot stronger... it would be over before you know it... try do something speacil for him on your way back new hair stlye or something.. (enjoy your self)
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reader, Yuna~  +, writes (8 January 2007):
 It is totally fine to feel this way. My boyfriend went away for 2 months and I was in tears the first few weeks. It seems like your case is easier to handle. Why don't you focus on how fun your vacation is? Time will fly when your mind is focus on something else. The thing you have to notice is you'll be home 2 weeks from now. : )
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2007): Yes! It is very normal to feel like this. You are only human and if you didn't feel anything and went away then you would be as cold as ice. I even hate my bloke going to work on night shift, because i don't really see him for 3 days because of my working all day. There is nothing wrong with the way you feel and you won't be on your own when you come back if he thinks the same way about you. If he isn't there when you come back then he isn't for you and you deserve better, but i bet he will be. Just save all your love for when you come back and make it up to each other then. Have a great holiday and enjoy every minute of it. Remember, absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Take care
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reader, garret +, writes (8 January 2007):
Ofcourse it's normal, your worried that while you're off enjoying your holiday you're boyfriend is going to be enjoying himself without you but Dont Worry. You mentioned how you know he misses you too so you wont come back to a single life im sure. Perhaps being apart a little will make seeing each other again all the more special. 2 weeks will absolutely fly by and before you know it you'll be back together. So focus on your holiday and enjoy the wonderful chance your getting to visit such a lovely place, keep in touch with your boyfriend and when you get back you'l wonder what the fuss was about :o)
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