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My girlfriend said she would never get back with me, so why does she still contact me!?

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Question - (27 March 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 28 March 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, sean90 writes:

My girlfriend said she would never get back with me!! I wrote an email, i love you but we have to move on now. take care.

So why does she still phone me?????

Seems that when she is lonely and things go wrong in her life she comes to me

Please answer.

Thanks

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A female reader, Miss C United Kingdom +, writes (28 March 2007):

Miss C agony auntIt seems like this girl isn't fully over you yet. The fact that she still calls you with her problems suggests that she can't move on from your relationship. However, I wouldn't look into as being a sign that she wants to get back with you, she may just be going rough a rough patch and needs someone to talk to. For now I would be there for her and just act as a friend would. However if this persistently continues then you need to ask her why she is doing this and if these phone calls mean anything more. I wish you luck!

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A female reader, brucebrae United States +, writes (28 March 2007):

maybe you were her first love. and if thats the case she will always look at you in a way that may seem shes interested but she may not be she just is interested in ur life and future.. its normal.

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A female reader, brucebrae United States +, writes (28 March 2007):

maybe you were her first love. and if thats the case she will always look at you in a way that may seem shes interested but she may not be she just is interested in ur life and future.. its normal.

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A female reader, Reebe United Kingdom +, writes (27 March 2007):

Reebe agony auntBecause she can have her cake and eat it! You either decide that you will be just friends with her, and listen to her problems and help her as a friend would. Or you tell her to stop calling you and that you have both moved on. She can't have you to be there for her when things are going bad and then not want you around when everything is ok again. Decide if you want to be friends, and what ever you decide make sure you tell her what your doing and why.

Good Luck!

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