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writes:my girlfriend of 5 years has told me she needs a break and have agreed only because i love her so much i do not want to lose her and after reading some of the other replies here i guess i know what it is i need to do. I just needed to vent but if you have anything you have to by all means please respond
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2009): You are right..it is the best thing you can do. I am a strong believer that it takes two to make a relationship work. And if she just not into doing this right now, then yes, give her space and maybe over time..you both can talk and find out what happened deep within your relationship to make her want to go. You may find out things that she's kept to herself about this relationship, that you need to know. But for certain you do have to let her go and do what she needs to do. It's a huge risk but if you back off she may find out she really misses you. Back off a bit and let her breath and that will give her the time to see if she really can live her life, without you. Good luck and take care.
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