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writes:ive been living with my girlfriend and her 2 kids for over a year. we lived in part of town moved to another part when we moved she changed. i do the dishs my own laundry sweep and mop the kitchen/dinning room floor. the appartment owner has a grounds keeper to mawn the lawn. but my girlfreind wrote me a not staying i sleep to much on the weekends and should be up out of bed by 830 not 9-930 and be up all day go to bed when she goes to bed. now as i type this right now she is in bed sleeping for the past 3 hours. she has no job just doctor apps. and shopping to do during the week so its not like she is a busy person. me i work 6 til 4pm mon thru friday. i feel in the wrong telling her off that my rest on the weekends matters and hers dosnt. ive given up alot in my life as it is for her and the kids from keeping all my things boxed up and stored away to not watching movies going out to see freinds of family but on holidays. but she has all these liberties and im the bad guy. before this move it was all equal not any more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2013): I understood everything you said in your post with no problem.If I were you I would communicate back to her on paper.Sounds like she want you to be the Mom and Dad or she's just using you to be there for her kids. You should be able to sleep late on weekends if that's what you want to do after working 6 to 4 five days a week. sounds like she has too many hang ups not to be working.You've only been living with her a little over a year so if I were you I would move out, your stuff is already packed so load the truck and move on, you're too young to be in a bosses and demanding relationship.Being in love with someone means having a piece of mind.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (11 March 2013):
 Please get to a local community college and learn how to write a decipherable sentence.... then come on this site and re-submit this ... so that those of us who are literate can understand what you are trying to say!!!
Good luck...
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni dont know why she wrote a note to me and yeah it was with paper and pen. her kids are going on 7 and 10 and dont eat healthy to begin with. junk food is their diet i cant even get them to eat fruit let alone meat. to them cake and ice cream is fine. ive written her a letter back but it didnt get me anywhere. i told her if she has something to say to tell me not write a note tape it to my dresser. but she was never like this. it used to be 50/50 we moved to a nice part of town and its do as i say but dont do as i do. she slept today from noon til around 4pm now if i would have done this i would either be told im lazy or she would write me a note saying i should be up with the kids doing things or doing somthing around the apartment.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (10 March 2013):
 She has to write a note to you, and not talk to you in person? Why, in paper it's more authoritative and urgent? Just write her back, request denied. Her kids are probably at an age when they not only want a hearty breakfast on Sunday, but they want quality entertainment too. She acts like the world owe her because the people are bad and she is sick. You are taking on more than you can chew and I can tell her demands will only grow more and more.
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