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*oo's Mum
writes:I have two close friends that I have known for nearly 20 years. I like them, I care about them and I really enjoy spending time in their company. I thought they felt the same about me. This weekend I found out that they have been having a lot of dinners at each others houses together and deliberately excluding me. To my face they treat me like I treat them and we have heaps of fun together but obviously behind my back they are not very nice about me. I know I need to back off from them now and create some space somehow but the difficulty in doing this well, is that our kids all go to the same school together and are very good friends too. Also we are on several committees together so we are kind of stuck together. Has this happened to anyone else? How would you deal with it? Reply to this Question
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reader, Moo's Mum +, writes (12 September 2011):
Moo's Mum is verified as being by the original poster of the question OK that's a thought. Thanks so much for replying.
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (12 September 2011):
 Are you closer to one of them? If so I would ask her straight out.
Sometime people "click" better with some friends then others, you know what I mean?
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