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writes:please please help me, my partner of over 2 years has just told me he does not know if he wants to be with me anymore and i am devistated. We had a massive row on friday and he went out and came back today and said that to me, i thought it was just a row on more. We have had not had the best time this last 2 weeks, he came back from afghan 8 weeks ago to have a operation and has found it hard to cope with being at home all the time and has been down this last 2 weeks, up until he came back from afghan he was based in wales and we only saw each other on weekends so it has been quite hard for both of us to be around each other all the time.We have got on each others nerves a little bit but never in my heart did i think a row could end it for us.He is goimg away to his friends tomorrow for a week so i said i would not get in touch with him and he said he wants me to still be in touch with him .He says he still loves me but is not happy anymore, i love him so much i dont know what to do to make him see how much i love him, and give me a chance to put it right, this is the first mager row we have ever had. Reply to this Question
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reader, Madalo 1  +, writes (17 September 2011):
Don't panic. Let him sort out the problems he has first. When people are coming from places like that they are usually stressed, what more with the operation he had to go through.
Let him get his life together, maybe after that he'll make up with you. But even if at the end of his soul searching he still doesnt want to be with you, accept it and just cherish the times you had. Forcing yourself on him might actually be fatal for both of you.
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