A
male
age
36-40,
*hyisitso
writes:Recently my friends whom i have known for the past 2 years are pissing me off. Whenever i am around, they make fun of me. They make fun of my apperance,my teeth,face etc and calls me gay. Even when someone newly joins the group, i am introduced as a gay guy. I am 25 and never had a proper girlfriend. I am still a virgin and never kissed a girl. I have just asked out 3 girls in the past and things didnt go well. I know that i am not perfect,however I have got a good eductation a decent job and am happy for allthat I have acheived. One of them wants me to hook up a colleuge of mine with another common friend. They both have never seen this girl. Eventhough both of them are my friends, i know that they are not the people interested in having a relationship. The fact that she is my colleuge and i dont want to have a spoiled realationship with her, prevents me from introducing this girl to them. hese friends have helped me in the past and i have returned the favour too. I dont want to lose them, but the recent behaviour from them is pissing me off? What should i do? Should i avoid them ?
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (16 April 2012):
 Talk to them and tell them how you feel. They are wrong to act this way, but you cant let them get away with it. If you dont want to lose their friendship then stand up for yourself and tell them to stop acting like this. If you start standing up for yourself and not allowing them to make fun of you then eventually they will realise you are not soft and they will stop.
If they still dont stop and you have told them that you dont like their behaviour, well they are not true friends and you should move on.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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