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writes: Help! I was talking to my friend last night and I told her a story about something my bf had said to me. Unexpectedly, she TOTALLY freaked out. She and my bf were close friends, but now she says she hates him. She thinks our relationship is emotionally abusive to me. I don't agree with her, but now she has me scared. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you. I think you're right to a degree. Ironically though, she interested in my ex, hahaha!
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (21 March 2009):
 You didn't explain what incident it was that your friend thought was emotionally abusive between you and your boyfriend, but if this has you questioning yourself and it has scared you, perhaps you need to discuss it with an adult. Your Mom or Dad would be able to steer you in the right direction, Hun.
Other possible scenarios? If you date friends ex's, they might be jealous of your relationship, or if you thought they were close friends, she might have been waiting for him to ask her out. She might have a crush on him and be trying to sabotage your relationship too. This is pure speculation on my part and not based on any facts that you have provided, but if something here 'rings true' when you are reading this, you may want to 'look into' that as well. In any case, It's best not to date people that your BFF is involved with, because it can get messy and complicated like this and lead to losing either your boyfriend, your BFF or both.
Good Luck sorting it all out, Hun.
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