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writes:i 'm a 19 year old lady in college and i love my repeater in section, and i'm sure he loves me too from his looks to me and his dealing with me, as i entered his heart at a time he was broken by another harsh female who left him depressed and sad, and i felt that thing and dealt with this point with mercy.the problem now is that i have a friend who studied in his section before me and she loves him crazily that she always mentioned him in every sentence she said, but i wanted to getsure if he loves her or me, so i tested him by going with her to talk with him, and i noticed that he dealt with me fairly and so softly and with her harshly,and he kept all his looks to me not her, but i want to know how to getsure if he really loves me, i want an evidence in my hands a real proof, and if this person really fits me or not as his standard is lower than mine,so please help and answer me, thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008): Hi Young lady,
Its good to see your question also i am new here, here is my idea... You love the guy and as you love the guy , you have to know that someone elses loves him...
Love is not a forcing element,you can force someone to love, love is a free expression and its free to all human...
I know how you are feeling now, U are a kind of jealous , if i am right?
If you look at appearances or you want to use your wisdom to know whether he loves you... You will certainly fail in this....He can pretend to you, though he may be harsh on your friend at your presence. It might be cos you are there....What happens whan you are not there?
My advice is that you still a 19 yr old girl...Focus on your study and at the end you will get your Mr Right without stress.....Believe me...
So try to overcome your emotion , be strong , you can do without him ..
For you to be happy , you need to overcome your emotion so as not to fall a victim of heart broken..
Its something i have done and experiment..
I hope you have a nice time and a happy time ..
Takie ...
God Bless,
Emmanuel
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (10 June 2008):
 You have asked the question that everyone has asked themselves at one point or another. "Does he like me?" Or she, as the case may be.
You said you were in college and he is a 'repeater in section.' I don't really understand what that means, but I think he is employed by the college? You have to be very careful if this is the case, some schools have very strict rules about students and teachers and permissible relationships between them. So be very careful here, this could be damaging to your schooling and his career.
In answer to your question, how can you tell or what evidence is there to figure out if he has feelings for you. It sounds like he does treat you gently and has a care for your feelings; he looks at you a lot. These are possible signs that he does find you attractive, but there's no real way to be sure without having some more conversations with him. He may just consider you a friend, nothing more.
I'd be a bit concerned that your friend likes him too, this might lead to some jealousy and the possible loss of a friend if things go too far. You might consider her feelings too, and decide if it is worth your friendship to try to get to know this man better.
If I were you, I would make sure that I am getting my work done in school, and slowly get to know him better, without pushing things at all. And I would read the school rules on student/teacher relationships, and follow them.
I know it's frustrating to have these feelings and not know what to do with them. The best advice I can give you is to let time unfold, and eventually you will find out what you need to know.
Take care, and good luck with your studies!
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