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writes:What do you think of quiet people.?My friend is way too quiet!, but it's like sometimes she will just sit there and say nothing at all. She will talk for a little bit then she would shut up. When others see her sometimes she just gives them a simple smile or say hello and ask how they are. Then that would be the end. Also another thing i've notcied is that shes alway quiet in class when we are messing around. She just gets on with her work. And when people give her negative energy she doesn't say anything and walk away like if nobodys there. Like this one girl once called her a sl*g and she replied " seriously girl, your rude and a freak. and ignored her even if the other girl said something back. Reply to this Question
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (30 November 2010):
 I think your friend sounds like a great and really cool person to be honest. And I don't see what your problem is. If you don't like her then stop being her friend. There's nothing wrong with your friend at all.
When people call her names she ignores them? Yes, thats exactly what a mature person would do. What do you expect, that she creates drama and gets into a fight? Highly immature and childish behaviour? Listen, friends are not dogs you bet on in a fight. If your friend gets called things you should first of all back her up! Second IGNORE the bullies. I think you need to support your friend more instead of backtalking her and calling her boring. Thats not being a good friend.
Respect people the way they are, and if you do not like the way they are you move on and find new people to hang out with. Easy as that.
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reader, Serpico  +, writes (30 November 2010):
She is introverted. Its a personality type, not a flaw.
Further, it sounds like you could learn a bit from her when it comes to work ethic and dealing with classless people. To me, her ignoring her antagonists is the ultimate slap in the face. She is showing they are beneath even a response.
Sounds like she has it figured out at a pretty young age.
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