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female
age
30-35,
*emptress184
writes:i feel like my best friend is envious of me. she copies everything i do. for example i decided to redo my room i painted it and got some new decorations for my room. she goes and paints her room and puts the exact same decoration. everything i have in my room she bought.i didnt say anything,everytime i would dye my hair she would dye hers. if i cut mines she would say omg i wanted to cut mines to. and she woudl do so. if i were a red lip stick she then obsessed and bought a red lip stick. i bought a tv she goes and buys one.i bought a laptop and a new ipod she goes and buys a laptop and a new ipod. she critized my job now she wants to quit hers and work in a job like mines. she even copies my foods! i then re painted my room and she says omg i wanted to repaint mines too. i also bought new furniture and took out my decorations and bought new ones and she goes and takes hers down and now shes gonna paint her room. she hasnt let me in her room everytime i come over now. i never say anything but im hurt. we used to be so close and now its like she criticize me when i wear stuff to go out. like i said ugh i look like a slut in this outfit, and she says yeah u do. i was dancing at the club and some guy said i knew how to dance and when we left she says i need dancing lessons. she also talks shit behind my back even when im proceeding to go in her car she laughs with a friend as im walking to the car. this is not the friend i used to know. i feel like shes in a competetion then just being a true friend. can some please give me an advice?
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (28 August 2012):
 End the friendship, sounds like she is incapable of being a real friend and honestly, have as much personality as a paper bag (which is why she copies you).
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (28 August 2012):
 Find a new friend to hang with, friends come and go, it's family you are stuck with.
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reader, tamperingtampaguy +, writes (28 August 2012):
Imitation is the best form of flattery.
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