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My friend has messages on her phone from the guy that I like that say "I love you". She says its just a joke. Should I believe it?

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Question - (10 February 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 February 2012)
A female Philippines age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hi!just want to ask for some piece of advice..the situation goes like this: I have a guy friend let's just call him RC and a girl friend by the name of MAE. the three of us are very close friends.we use to hang-out during our free time or after our work. and as time goes by i started to fall in love with my guy friend..and of course i told it to mae..i tell everything to her, about my feelings for our guy friend and i told her to keep it as a secret..then one time when we were at the guy's house I asked mae if i could use her phone so that i could text my mom..after i have texted i noticed the messages on my friends phone..i noticed that there are a lot of text messages containing the following message:"I LOVE YOU!"and the name of RC in Mae's phone is "hon"..and I cannot believe what I just saw..I want cry but I cannot..and that same night i texted mae and asked her about what i saw in her phone and she told that it was just her petname for RC and they it's just a joke for them. that's what she keeps on telling me..and until now it still bothers me if it is true or not..i don't know if i will still trust them or not..my question is "should i believe what mae is telling me or should i not?"hope you could help me..thanks!!

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (10 February 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntmy EX husband used to do this and his explanation was "i love her like a friend" Yeah right.....

sorry if you are in a committed relationship you should not be telling other people you love them...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2012):

I say stuff like that all the time to my good friends. I wouldn't worry.

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A female reader, Deagan United States +, writes (10 February 2012):

Deagan agony auntI don't think you should believe Mae. How can "Hon" and "I love you" can simply be an inside joke between them?

It doesn't seem like you have an honest friend.

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