My exboyfriend might be playing games or is it something else?

A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

By the way I'm 36, and he is 37. I've known K for almost 5 years. We met online back then and met a few times in person since then. It's mostly been phone and text messaging. We started to date in November and it didn't work we kept fighting so we broke up and took some time away. A few weeks ago we were talking and he told me he was really sorry about everything and that he still loved me and he wanted to start new. I agreed. It's been three weeks and he barely returns a phone call or text and when it does, he tells me "i'm not your boyfriend, I don't need to answer every time you contact me". I was shocked. Then I told him I thought we were starting over and he said "give me a few days". This was yesterday. I tried to see what he meant by that, and why I had to wait a few days and he only says "I told you to wait. If you don't wanna wait then go"! This shocked me because it was him and not me who said he wanted to try again. We talked daily for about a week and all this started last week. I have a feeling he might be with someone else. Why would he not tell me why I have to give him a few days? Why does he need a few days? Why should I wait? It seems he might be playing games. I told him I'm getting a new phone tomorrow, (i lied), and that my phone number would be changing and he'd loose contact with me. All he responded was by text "I told you to wait a few days". It's so strange. What do you think is going on here? I am so stressed out about this because the last time we talked about 2 weeks ago one of the last things he said was that he still loved me. Then he disappeared till yesterday and told me to give him a few days? What should I do?

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