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I want to flirt but I don't know how

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Question - (4 February 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 4 February 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

i want to be able to flirt with the guy i like!!!but i just don't know how!!i am so enbaressed!!

i just want tips on how to get him to like me and all!!

please help!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011):

I'm gunna say the common one straight away- Be yourself. You might be fed up of hearing it already but it honestly is the first step. You don't want him falling for someone you're not! Now I am guessing you don't really know him that well if you are trying to "get him to like you"? So I think its a good idea to try and get to know him a bit aswell. Then he'll be likely to notice you more and you'll find it easier to be around him. It could just be simple things like asking the time or asking to borrow something but they're all good ways to start a conversation with him. Another easy thing to do is if he catches you looking at him, you should keep looking for about a second and then look away and smile to yourself. It makes them wonder what you were thinking ;) When you see them you could always say hi and give them your best smile? And it doesnt hurt to tease them now and again either. I know thats what guys normally do but its a pretty easy way to flirt...

I used to struggle with this kind of thing as well and I'll admit, I still do but it gets easier as you get to know the person. Just go with the flow and keep cool and you'll be fine!

Good luck with everything and I hope I helped :)

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A female reader, SALLY (Mum to Lisa-Sue) Australia +, writes (4 February 2011):

Plenty of Smiles ... Plenty of friendship ... Nice Sexy clothes (without being a Tart) ... NOT Too much Make-Up (use it to Enhance your Natural Beauty .. not To Paint your face, because otherwise one day he'll see you without any and he may not be impressed.

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A female reader, pontikoulina18 Greece +, writes (4 February 2011):

pontikoulina18 agony auntu can tell him go out with u for a walk or go to see a monvie:)be nice and ''wear'' the best smile of urs:) AND of course be yourself:_)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011):

I think a good place to start would be to just try smiling at him when you see him, or say hello as you go past. That will make you seem friendly and approachable. It can be difficult and embarrassing when you like someone, but if you just be friendly there is no reason to be. See how he reacts. If he ignores you, then at least you have tried. But if he responds positively, then you could maybe start asking him how he is, things like that. And remember, give him some opportunities to approach you too, as you shouldn't have to do all the work! I hope this helps.

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