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writes: I'd like to start off saying I'm not a liar, but I was in a relationship that involved a lot of lying from both me and the other person. I raised hell when I found out that he lied to me and vowed revenge, which I acheived. Not long ago though, he discovered how much I lied to him and his/our friends. He gave me more than one opportunity to come clean but my solution was to completely sever the tie...or at least try to. I've ignored his texts, IMs, and calls but now he's leaving comments on my journals that makes me totally guilty completely sick to my stomach and I want to run away from this entire situation. He's even threatened to expose me like I did him and the girl he cheated on. Not only am I now a liar, but I'm also a hypocrite. This may sound like an outrageous soap opera premise, but I don't know what to do. I want to avoid him forever and maybe the problem will go away forever, but he won't stop leaving guilt trip comments.
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (11 June 2006):
 I feel as if you should talk because the things you hold him at fault for are the things that you have done and more. Think of how you felt when he did what he did now is what he's doing similar to what you did. You want to throw a rock and hide your hands. No, you must be the adult because most of this problem you created along with him. I think you need to take your medicine you did it and whats good for the goose is good for the gander.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2006): i think yu should talk to him tell him how u feel and that u no you have done wrong tell him to stop being stupid and to leave you alone that was then and this is now
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