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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend broke up today. i dumped him, ive been not as happy as we used to be for about a month now.he dont listen to mehe wont talk to be, ive said we need to talk he said we do too, i asked him when he wanted to he said i dunno cause im busy, which is true he works 40+ hrs a week and has a child from his ex. he says he loves me and wants to be with me, but yet he dnt seem like he wants to make an effort.i want to go out drinking with him etc or go to movies etc,he says he cant afford it, but i also want to go walks etc. that dnt cost anythingi wanna be with him cause i love him,he says he does to, but i dunnoi know what i sound like, i hate thoose girls to but for some ******* reason im complaining still lol.i wanna be with him, but i need to know what he is willing to put something into this relationship i should try and get him to talk to me about us or just forget it.would appreciate serious answers onlyand men would be best at answering thisIs he just being a typical man and not wanting to show is feeling and emotionsor is he using methanks.do you think he is just doing all this so i break up wid him because he aint got the balls to dump me,i have spoken to him since and he did actually say he wanted to meet up now! and keeps asking how i am.advice please!!!thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008): He is using you. As long as you will desparetly fall all over him he will keep it up. Be unavailable to him and he will be all over you. Not at first though. It will take a few days maybe a week before he wants to talk to you. then when he calls you make up a reason to let him go after a few minutes and say to him "ill call u back in just a minute" and dont call him back and dont answer any of his calls for a few days. then BAM hes hooked. Why you may ask? i dont know but i would bet that something along those lines was done to you by him and thats how you got hooked! guys love to play head games so just play head games on them also!
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